Best friend ne kisi aur ko choose kar liya — mujhe bura laga
Kabhi aisa hua hai ki
jo tumhara sabse close friend tha,
achanak kisi aur ke saath zyada time spend karne laga?
Us moment mein dil thoda sa chup ho jata hai.
Lagta hai —
“Shayad main ab utna important nahi hoon.”
Aur yeh feeling bahut zyada hurt karti hai.
Aur sach yahi hai —
aise waqt bura lagna bilkul normal hota hai.
💭 Phir aisa kyun hota hai?
Kyunki jab hum kisi ko apna maante hain,
toh hum unse ek khaas jagah expect karte hain.
Jab woh jagah hil jaati hai,
toh dil ko lagta hai jaise kuch chhoot gaya ho.
Iska matlab yeh bilkul nahi hota ki:
tum boring ho
tumhari value kam ho gayi hai
ya tum achhe friend nahi ho
❤️ Tum kya kar sakte / sakti ho?
Pehle apni feeling ko accept karo.
“Achha… mujhe bura laga.”
Phir apne aap ko yaad dilao:
dosti competition nahi hoti.
Agar mann ho,
toh shaanti se keh sakte / sakti ho:
“Mujhe thoda lonely feel hua jab tum kisi aur ke saath the.”
Aur sabse zaroori baat —
tum kisi aur ka choice hone ke liye kam nahi ho jaate.
🌱 Bloom Lesson
Main kisi ka choice hoon ya nahi,
isse meri value decide nahi hoti.
Meri dosti aur main khud
dono keemti hain.
