Meri do doston ki ab nahi banti… kya mujhe kisi ek ko choose karna hoga?
“Hum teen dost the aur pehle hum teenon ki kaafi banti thi.
Ab meri dono doston ki aapas mein nahi banti,
lekin meri dono se friendship hai.
Ab meri ek dost baar-baar kehti hai ki main doosri dost se friendship tod doon, warna woh bhi meri dost nahi rahegi.
Main kya karun?”
Kabhi-kabhi friendship mein aisi situation aa jaati hai
jahan problem do doston ke beech hoti hai,
par hum khud bhi uske beech mein aa jaate hain.
Tab mann confuse ho sakta hai.
“Main kiski baat maanun?”
“Agar maine ek ko choose kiya, toh doosri ko bura lagega?”
“Aur agar choose nahi kiya, toh kya meri dost mujhse friendship tod degi?”
Aisa feel hona bilkul samajh aata hai. 🌱
💭 Par kya kisi ek ko choose karna zaroori hai?
Agar aapki dono se friendship achhi hai,
toh sirf isliye kisi ek se friendship todna zaroori nahi
kyunki un dono ki aapas mein nahi ban rahi.
Un dono ke beech jo hua,
woh unki problem ho sakti hai.
Aapki friendship un dono ke saath
alag-alag bhi ho sakti hai.
🌱 Toh apni dost se kya keh sakte hain?
Shaant tareeke se kuch aisa:
“Tum meri dost ho aur woh bhi meri dost hai.
Main tum dono ki friendship ke beech nahi aana chahti / chahta.
Main kisi ek ko choose nahi karna chahti / chahta.”
Ho sakta hai aapki dost ko yeh baat turant achhi na lage.
Par friendship mein apni baat pyaar se rakhna
galat nahi hota.
Aur agar baar-baar pressure mile,
ya situation se bahut tension hone lage,
toh kisi trusted bade — jaise mummy, papa ya teacher —
se baat karna bhi theek hai.
Dosti ka matlab yeh nahi
ki humein har baat maan kar
apni doosri dosti chhodni pade.
🌸 Bloom Lesson
Achha dost banna matlab kisi ek side ko choose karna nahi.
Kabhi-kabhi dono ki care karte hue apni baat shaant tareeke se rakhna bhi friendship hoti hai.
