Kabhi aisa hota hai —
jab ghar mein do ya zyada bachche hote hain,
toh kisi na kisi ko
kisi aur se compare kar diya jaata hai.
Jaise:
“Dekho tumhara bhai kitna fast padh leta hai,”
ya
“Tumhari behen kitni quietly baith jaati hai.”
Tab dil ke andar
thoda sa dard hota hai.
Jaise hum kam lag rahe ho.
💭 Aisa kyun hota hai?
Kyunki har bachcha
alag-alag tarah se seekhta hai.
Par kabhi-kabhi
bade log yeh bhool jaate hain
aur galti se compare kar dete hain.
Iska matlab yeh nahi
ki koi bachcha zyada acha hai
ya koi kam.
🌱 Is situation mein hum kya kar sakte hain?
- Apne aap se yaad rakhna:
“Main apni jagah par theek hoon.” - Apni achhi baaton ko dekhna
- Aur agar mann kare,
kisi bade ko pyaar se kehna:
“Mujhe compare hone par bura lagta hai.”
Har phool
apni hi tarah khilta hai.
🌸 Bloom Lesson
Do log same nahi hote.
Aur alag hona galat nahi —
alag hona hi khoobsurat hota hai.
