Kabhi-kabhi mummy-papa meri baat kyun nahi samajhte?
Kabhi aisa hua hai ki
tum kuch kehna chahte the / chah rahi thi,
lekin mummy-papa ne kuch aur hi samajh liya?
Us moment mein mann thoda sa uljhan mein pad jata hai.
Lagta hai β
βMain theek se samjha hi nahi paaya / paayi.β
Aur dil ke andar thodi si udaasi aa jaati hai.
Aur sach yahi hai β
samjha na jaana dukh deta hai.
π Phir aisa kyun hota hai?
Kabhi-kabhi mummy-papa:
- apni zimmedariyon mein uljhe hote hain
- apni chinta ya thakaan ke saath baat sunte hain
- ya problem ko jaldi solve karna chahte hain
Isliye bina jaane,
woh poori baat sune bina hi react kar dete hain.
Iska matlab yeh bilkul nahi hota ki:
tumhari baat bekaar hai
mummy-papa care nahi karte
ya tum galat ho
β€οΈ Tum kya kar sakte / sakti ho?
Pehle apne dil ko shaant karo.
Yeh yaad rakho β
samajhna time leta hai.
Phir pyaar se bolo:
βMujhe lagta hai main apni baat theek se nahi keh paaya / paayi.
Kya main thoda aur explain kar sakta / sakti hoon?β
Yeh kehna zid nahi hoti β
yeh connection banana hota hai.
π± Bloom Lesson
Main pyaar se apni baat rakh sakta / sakti hoon.
Aur dheere-dheere,
samajhna bhi aata hai.

