Jab koi baar-baar baat karta hai… aur jab wahi chup ho jaata hai

Kabhi notice kiya hai —
jab koi humse baar-baar baat karta hai,
toh mann mein ek thought aa jaata hai:
“Yeh itna baat kyun karta / karti hai?”

Aur phir…
jab wahi koi dheere-dheere baat karna kam ya band kar deta hai,
toh dil chupchaap poochta hai:
“Aaj yeh baat kyun nahi kar raha / rahi?”

Is beech jo feeling hoti hai,
woh thodi confusing hoti hai…
aur thodi si khali si bhi.

💭 Aisa kyun hota hai?

Kyunki jab koi hamesha paas hota hai,
toh hum uski presence ko aadat samajh lete hain.
Aur jab wahi presence dheere se kam hoti hai,
toh humein uski ahmiyat samajh aati hai.

Yeh galat nahi hai.
Yeh sirf dil ke mehsoos karne ka tareeqa hai.

🌱 Is situation mein hum kya kar sakte hain?

• Apne dil se poochna:
  “Mujhe uski baat se irritation ho rahi thi,
  ya mujhe uski baat ki aadat ho gayi thi?”
• Chup rehne ko turant ignore hona ya narazgi na samajhna
• Aur agar mann kare, toh ek simple si baat:
  “Sab theek hai?”
  Kabhi-kabhi itna hi kaafi hota hai.

🌸 Bloom Lesson

Jo cheez roz milti rahe,
uski ahmiyat aksar
thodi kami mehsoos hone par samajh aati hai.